Nov 2007
Check-Up from the Neck Up
23 November 07 Filed in: Mental
Health
Many of us are pretty good at basic maintenance. We
have the oil changed in our cars when it's due, we
have our teeth cleaned every 6 months, and perhaps we
even change the air filter in the furnace and replace
the batteries in the smoke detectors once a year. All
of these tasks are designed to keep things running
smoothly and prevent problems. Yet it's not so clear
to us what practices might improve our mental health.
We're not born with engine lights that tell us when
some part of us is overheated or broken, nor
calendars that tell us when our next vacation is due
(but wouldn't that be nice?!). Instead, we can
benefit from a "check-up from the neck up" - checking
in with ourselves to evaluate how we are doing and
feeling. Try these questions:
• How regularly are you sleeping? How many hours each night? Do you sleep soundly or not?
• Are you eating enough, or eating too little? Open your cupboards and refrigerator - do the contents look like you want them to?
• Is there time for exercise, reflection, meditation in your life?
• How would you rate your connections with others? Frequent enough, too often or just right? Superficial or deep?
• Are your finances and chores up to date? Or are things slipping behind you?
• Do you engage enough in activities that make you feel good - such as whimsy, hobbies, volunteering, spiritual activities, visiting with special persons?
Conduct a "check-up from the neck up" to evaluate how you are doing. If you find that you are "off" on a number of the answers to the questions above, perhaps it's time to slow down and evaluate your priorities. Can someone help you get re-aligned? What responsibilities can you give to someone else or get rid of altogether? What priorities need to shift in rank? Monitoring our behaviors, thoughts and feelings on a regular basis helps us identify problem areas so we can get a tune-up. Try a "check-up from the neck up" on a weekly basis and see what you find out about yourself!
• How regularly are you sleeping? How many hours each night? Do you sleep soundly or not?
• Are you eating enough, or eating too little? Open your cupboards and refrigerator - do the contents look like you want them to?
• Is there time for exercise, reflection, meditation in your life?
• How would you rate your connections with others? Frequent enough, too often or just right? Superficial or deep?
• Are your finances and chores up to date? Or are things slipping behind you?
• Do you engage enough in activities that make you feel good - such as whimsy, hobbies, volunteering, spiritual activities, visiting with special persons?
Conduct a "check-up from the neck up" to evaluate how you are doing. If you find that you are "off" on a number of the answers to the questions above, perhaps it's time to slow down and evaluate your priorities. Can someone help you get re-aligned? What responsibilities can you give to someone else or get rid of altogether? What priorities need to shift in rank? Monitoring our behaviors, thoughts and feelings on a regular basis helps us identify problem areas so we can get a tune-up. Try a "check-up from the neck up" on a weekly basis and see what you find out about yourself!
Gratitude and Thanks
16 November 07 Filed in: Empowerment
Sometimes, it can be easy to focus on the deficits -
what we don't have or what we are dissatisfied about
in our lives. When the list is long and full of
difficult challenges, it can lead to feelings of
defeat and depression. A challenge may be to focus on
the assets. What are you grateful for in your life?
To whom could you give thanks? What's going well, or
'okay', that you can embrace, be proud of? Consider
keeping a daily gratitude journal that can serve to
celebrate the positive events, people and
accomplishments in your life.
Your CEO
09 November 07 Filed in: Empowerment
Pretend that your life is a company, and you are the
Chief Executive Officer. In the CEO role, you take
note of the people and activities that serve the
company well, helping it to progress and succeed. You
also identify those factors that are challenges or
obstacles for the company. In your position as CEO of
your life, what components of your company should you
keep, perhaps even emphasize and strengthen? What
challenges or obstacles should you work toward
eliminating? Take steps toward leading your life
toward further success and happiness.
Trust Yourself
09 November 07 Filed in: Empowerment
"Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you
will be happy to live with all your life. Make the
most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of
possibility into flames of achievement!" - -
Golda Meir
U of MN Research Opportunity
02 November 07 Filed in: Research
The Eating Disorders Research Program at the
University of Minnesota is conducting an anorexia
nervosa research study. The purpose of the study is
to learn more about anorexia nervosa using a
measurement technique called ecological momentary
assessment to identify specific moods and attitudes
associated with disordered eating behaviors. This
technique involves the recording of specific moods,
attitudes, and stressors into a handheld computer
device. Individuals who are eligible and decide to
participate will be asked to complete a series of
interviews and questionnaires, a blood draw, a urine
sample, and a brief physical exam. After completing
this portion of the study they will be asked to carry
a handheld computer device continuously for two
weeks. During that time the handheld computer will
routinely beep them throughout the day to prompt them
to answer a series of questions. They will also be
asked to record certain behaviors on the handheld
computer as they occur throughout the day. In
addition, they will be called three times over the
two-week period to report daily food intake.
Participants will be paid $100 for each week that they carry the handheld computer with a $50 bonus to those who respond to the handheld computer beeps on time. This is NOT a treatment study. If you are (or someone you know is) female, have anorexia nervosa, and may be interested in this research study, please contact Nora at 612-627-1991 for more information.
Participants will be paid $100 for each week that they carry the handheld computer with a $50 bonus to those who respond to the handheld computer beeps on time. This is NOT a treatment study. If you are (or someone you know is) female, have anorexia nervosa, and may be interested in this research study, please contact Nora at 612-627-1991 for more information.
Psychologists and a Lightbulb
02 November 07
So, exactly how many psychologists does it take to
change a lightbulb?
[Only one ... but the lightbulb has to really want to change!]
[Only one ... but the lightbulb has to really want to change!]